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Flirting and Meeting 101
What do you say when you meet someone for the
first time?
If you feel totally inept at flirting and meeting, join the club. The truth is, I've met
very few single people, men or women, who are truly comfortable meeting another single for
the first time. So here's some advice for handling the dreaded "Singles Scene."
First, as I've said elsewhere, go out alone to parties and social events; you're more
approachable and less encumbered that way. And for heavens sake, try to look like you're
having fun. Smile. Move. Dance. If people think you're enjoying life, they'll be drawn to
you.
Next, don't get hung up on appearances. Noticing a "10" takes no particular
insight. But remind yourself that the "10s" are probably spoiled and impossible.
Instead, just think about your ideal lover and work the crowd looking for someone who
seems to fit. At almost any singles bar or function, you can eliminate the "bottom
three" and "top two" based on appearance and still have lots of
"possibles" left in the middle.
Be smart, though, in whom you approach. If they haven't even glanced your way, or if they
seem to be wrapped up in an involving conversation, cool it. Wait until they're looking
your way. At that point, there's nothing wrong with a good old-fashioned flirtatious look
(eye to eye, with a smile). If they don't return the smile, holding eye contact for a
second or two, it's probably best to keep moving. If they do, be prepared with some
conversation.
"Breaking the ice" is an apt old expression. There is an inevitable awkwardness
when you first meet someone -- even when you sense that they want to meet you too. So
here's the most important part of my advice: simply accept the awkwardness, and understand
with certainty that the other person feels it too, and you will bring a little grace to a
situation that needs it badly.
This means you don't have to be glib. If you're not naturally extroverted, witty and quick
with a response, it's a mistake to try to be cutesy. This is not Burt Reynolds and Sally
Field "spontaneously" charming each other for the first time. It's two
uncomfortable real people in real life.
So what do you say? Something simple. The simplest thing is to introduce yourself --
"Hi. My name is ____, what's yours?" Actually, any opening line will probably
do, because that's the easy part. What you need to be prepared for is the deadly
monosyllabic answer: "Jim." Or "Betty." Period.
The point is, you can't expect the other person to start rattling on just because you've
introduced yourself; have a second question in mind which can't be answered with just yes
or no, such as, "How do you know (the hosts)?" Say anything to get the
conversation past the first question and answer. Remember, the other person is finding it
just as difficult.
Once you know their name and you've exchanged a sentence or two, more self-disclosure may
be in order. For example, "Oh, I just have the worst time meeting people for the
first time -- and you seem so (cute), (intelligent), (popular, etc.). I don't suppose it's
the same with you, is it?"
That's it. You've broken the ice. Ask more questions if the person seems interesting, or
if not, just say, "Well, I'm going to circulate a little; let's talk later."
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